The Pastor’s Wife

Dear Pastor’s Wife,

You are not just a wife of a pastor—you are a pastor.

In fact, you have the strongest calling upon your home.

You are necessary.

You are a crown.

You are most excellent in every way as I have designed and prepared you to be

But I got to tell you.

It will not be easy.

I sent my Son—My one and only Son to pave the way.

He left this message and said “IN THIS WORLD YOU WILL HAVE TRIBULATION


There will be many times that you will have to walk alone.

You will have to sit alone.

You will have to engage and even run alone.

But in that alone—I am there beside you and I need you to remember that PLEASE!

Don’t chase people! Attract them!

The ones that need to be a part of your life shall be.

You will see many types of things in your life time—many go and the real ones remain. In your pursuit you will get hurt.

In your patience you will gain strength.

Learn to walk with ME every day.

Learn to talk WITH Me every day.

Learn that I AM YOUR BEST FRIEND, your Father—your Husband—your Lover—I am your Comfort, I am your Strength, your Rock, your Fortress. Putting anything else in place of where I belong will only make you feel the VAST difference immediately—for there is none beside Me.

I also need you to know how important that you are to Me.

How beautiful, how precious.

When I think of you—that is always—I am forever smiling inside.

You make Me move on your behalf.

Because of My deep love for you.

You are already OK.

You are already destined for GREATNESS!

You are living that out.

Parallel to that purpose will be pain—but the POWER that I release to you in the midst of that pain will be your antidote.

You will love great—move great and BE great because I have called you to be the PASTOR’S wife.

I am the SHEPHERD.

I am THE PASTOR—so your calling is being MARRIED TO ME! You are MY wife! So nothing and no one will separate us.

Just do what I tell you to do, go where I show you to go…say what I give you to say because they will be the deepest and the most prophetic pieces of life that must be demonstrated THROUGH YOUR LIFE.

With Agape Love,

Your Father
Your God
I am yours and you are mine.

About Christina

Blessings to all that are viewing this. My name is Christina Cruz-Mendez. I am a Senior Pastor at Mission United International Church in Yonkers, NY working along side my husband Juan A. Mendez Jr. Senior Pastor, currently residing in Canton, Georgia. We have been together for 29 years with 2 children that God has blessed us with. Makes us the family of four - "JusChrist4". I have been a Christian and active in ministry for about 22 years now. Through all the rocky and smooth roads in life I am eternally grateful that God has brought me this far in life to share with the world what He is doing in me, through me and for me. View all posts by Christina

2 responses to “The Pastor’s Wife

  • Janelle

    Absolutely!!!! Keep um coming sis!


  • RootedInChrist12

    Every word, that’s all Jesus right there. Caught in humbleness and a still atmosphere in deep thought and meditation. All you hear is His Warm, Strong, Powerful, Loving, Peaceful, Still and Authoritative VOICE!!!!!!! At Awe this morning just to hear Gods voice in this message before a days work. May the Lord Jesus continue with you.


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